A few thoughts I’d like to share with you.

I was sitting outside early this morning with a cup of very delicious coffee. The gardens around where I live are beautiful, there were birds, coolness in the air, the sky seemed endless.

What struck me was something I’ve always known; acknowledge many times in my life, as most of us have done, it’s a beautiful world.

Smell the roses

There is a lot pf pain and misery in the world. A great deal of abuse, of corruption, nastiness, greed, violence and ugliness.

But it’s a beautiful world, filled with beautiful people, wonderful moments, touching experiences and incredible possibilities.

To see the beauty takes awareness more than anything else. To stop for but a moment and smell the roses, look at what’s around you, savour an embrace, look into somebody’s eyes, hear a story of love and compassion. It takes literally a few moments, more if you want it. But in a minute or two you can see, feel, hear, touch, smell, experience, know something beautiful.

Find the beauty

The news around us is filled with all the negativity, yes it’s important to know what’s going on. And then at the end of the news bulletins on TV and radio, buried somewhere in the paper, is a cute or heart-warming story, just one.

Is this because there’s more of the ugliness in the world?

No, I think there’s more of the beauty. But the other side sells the news.

So we have to take responsibility to find the beauty. They, the big media they, give us the other side and plenty of it.

We have to find the beauty. And it’s there, in every life the possibility exists.

It takes a little effort, and it requires awareness of what we’re experiencing.

But it’s a beautiful world, if we give it a chance to show its beauty, give people the time and space, the safety to share something from inside that shows the beauty.

The path I’ve chosen

It’s personal, touches each of us in different ways.

For me it’s been about pleasure, love, connection and intimacy.

The path I chose has not been easy. Sex is still a difficult subject for many people. Certain aspects of sexuality are terrifying. I think this is because it touches the very core of who we are, the essence of our being. And we don’t have much real education and understanding to put it in.

Because of the difficulties, particularly on a financial level, there have been many times I’ve been on the verge of doing something else.

And every single time, bar none, the next day I’ve received an email or phone call about what this has done for somebody, a relationship, their own understanding, healing or growth.

That beauty has kept me committed.

The desire to share what I have, what I know, is vast.

Me knowing what I do, great, wonderful. I have amazing experiences, more than I could sometimes put into words.

Sharing the beauty

But sharing it is important, vital.

And I truly believe it helps bring more beauty to the world, to your life, your relationship, yourself.

More love, tenderness, pleasure, connection, intimacy, knowledge, power, healing, growth, understanding… an endless list.

It’s about a beautiful world. For ourselves, our partners, our lovers, our children, families and friends.

It’s a consciousness that says the more beauty you experience, whatever that means to you, in whatever way you experience it, the more beauty there is. And everything that goes with it. 

For myself, I have some wonderful gifts and I’d love to share them with you.

Please take a moment, today, today, to experience something beautiful, and maybe to share it.